Ruin is a gift. It is the agent for transformation.Ruin is aided by hate, betrayal, deceit,jealousy..... If ruin does not visit us once in a while, we would most likely be stuck in one place never becoming better. Ruin will push you out of a wrong place you settled in, wrong activities you chose and wrong people you either welcomed in your life or tricked their way in.To excel in life we need lessons and ruin wheels these in. Falling,failing,making a mistake or someone dragging you into pain does not have to be a disaster and deep you into a lifetime full of anger and bitterness.Its your bridge to your better.
Bitterness and anger keeps you away from your gift joy and achievement so you should loose it ASAP.The longer you nest it, the longer you delay your joy. Life was not meant to be perfect. What makes it imperfect is, nature and man is part of it. We are beings prone to error and people make wrong choices and drag us into it for their own selfish desires like we do too sometimes. None of us is free of wrong towards another.
A human being is a stubborn being, mostly not in favor of change especially when it involves rough edges.This is why the process of change which has to involve, discomfort,pain and being broken is not a cup of tea to anyone. Unfortunately, for our own good,although we hardly realize and acknowledge so,this is a necessary process.When ruin is dragged into our lives and we get torn and pain invades, its okay to take time out and heal but not for too long.It takes courage to rise again and move on.But most of all it takes a brave heart to realize that forgiveness is the only gate through to moving on.Through to the gift of transformation.Through to a delivered destiny.
Time waits for no king and time lost is never recovered.Sometimes, unknown to us amazing doors to glowing opportunities open while we are still in the hurt world.The painful thoughts and the anger in our hearts block our vision and so these opportunities pass us by.Forgiveness is the only way to break away from the past and embrace the future. Its the only way to crash anger and pain that is buried in us after a painful experience.Forgiveness is never for the other person but we that have been hurt. Forgive and you will magically jump out of pain and experience a new day.You will smile again and soon you will be glad that, ruin paid you a visit.
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